"No one likes to feel like they're being played or like someone else is pulling something over on them. At the beginning, it may be hard to find things to talk about because you don't really know each other, but trying to force him in to conversations about things neither of you even care about just so you can talk to him is not going to help your cause at all. If you did even a little bit of planning ahead of time, you should be able to find conversation topics that you are both interested in which will go a LONG way towards helping you with your goal. Lying about what you find interesting may seem like it could help but that will only hurt you later on. No one likes to be lied to."
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